When our mother became seriously ill, my sister Dena took on a role I didn’t. For twelve years, she was by Mom’s side—managing her care, handling daily challenges, and navigating the long journey of decline with patience and strength. Meanwhile, I was busy raising four kids, working, and convincing myself that my responsibilities excused my absence.
When Mom passed away, I returned home assuming everything would be divided equally between us, just as we had always believed. But Dena had something different to share.
She had stayed in the house. She’d renovated it. Maintained it. She had lived it—and carried the emotional and physical responsibilities that came with it. Calmly, she told me, “You don’t deserve a penny.” I didn’t take it seriously—until she showed me the folder.
Inside were receipts, legal documents, and, most striking of all, a revised will. Our mother had left everything to Dena.
I was shocked. Hurt. Even angry. But deep down, I understood why. Dena had devoted herself completely to our mother’s care. She put her career, personal goals, and much of her independence on hold. I had been present in moments, but I hadn’t walked the path she did.
It took me a week to gather the courage to call her and apologize.
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