I’ve always identified as a Christian, but I wouldn’t say I’ve been incredibly devout. Growing up, my parents and I went to church on major holidays or a random Sunday here and there. When I started my own family, I tried to instill a love of God in my kids without being forceful about religion. I thought that was enough to keep them grounded in faith while letting them explore life in their own way.
Discovering My Children’s Deep Faith
Recently, though, I noticed a shift in my kids—one that both surprises and intrigues me. They’ve become far more religious than I ever was at their age. They aren’t just attending church because I ask them to; they’re going on their own, joining prayer groups, and reading religious texts daily. One even volunteers at a youth ministry program every weekend.
I find myself in a strange position: part of me is proud of their commitment, but another part worries if they’re overdoing it. I can’t help but ask: Should I be concerned or should I be overjoyed by this newfound devotion?
My Conflicting Emotions
On one hand, it warms my heart to see my children finding comfort and moral guidance in faith. They’ve become more compassionate and helpful around the house, and I see them genuinely trying to live out Christian values. That’s admirable. But on the other hand, I question if their level of devotion might become overwhelming. Will they neglect other aspects of teenage life—like friendships, hobbies, or academics? Are they putting too much pressure on themselves to be perfect in God’s eyes?
I remember what it was like to be a teenager: everything felt so intense and immediate. My greatest fear is that they might develop unhealthy guilt if they can’t live up to a certain standard of “holiness.” I also worry about judgment or exclusion of friends who don’t share the same beliefs. I want them to grow into well-rounded, empathetic individuals who appreciate different perspectives.
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