I began depositing my paycheck into the joint account, but I also started digging into Linda’s so-called financial expertise. What I found shocked me. For someone who preached frugality, Linda was drowning in debt—maxed-out credit cards, unpaid loans, and luxury purchases galore.
The next week, Linda arrived for a “budget meeting” with Matt. She came armed with folders and a condescending smile.
“Let’s review your finances,” she began confidently.
“Actually,” I interrupted, handing Matt a folder, “I’ve got something to share first.”
Inside were Linda’s financial records—proof of her reckless spending. Matt’s face turned pale as he flipped through the pages.
“Mom,” he said quietly, “is this true?”
Linda turned red, sputtering excuses. “How dare you invade my privacy!”
I stayed calm. “If you’re managing our money, I figured it was only fair to know how you handle your own.”
Matt was visibly shaken. “Mom, you lied to me.”
Linda stormed out, fuming. As soon as she left, I transferred my paycheck back into my personal account.
Matt sat in silence for a while before looking at me. “Sandra, I’m sorry. I didn’t know…”
“You didn’t,” I said firmly. “But now you need to decide: Are we partners, or is your mom still running the show?”
Since that day, Matt has been making amends—setting boundaries with Linda and acknowledging her controlling behavior.
As for Linda, her attempts to guilt-trip me go unanswered. My paycheck? It’s back where it belongs—in my control.
Was I harsh? Maybe. But when someone tries to control your life, you have to stand your ground.