- “Pretty sure when a baby cries from a full diaper, that’s consent. Actually, that’s a demand.”
- “Do you need to get consent from your cat to change its litter tray? No. Same with a baby. Just do it!”
'Sexuality expert' says parents should ask for baby's consent when changing nappies.
— Sunrise (@sunriseon7) May 10, 2018
Yes, really… pic.twitter.com/iR6wUfP87i
Still, others defend Carson’s approach, emphasizing that modeling respect and communication has value, even if infants can’t literally consent. One supporter wrote, “Babies learn to communicate long before they speak. Showing respect and acknowledging them creates healthy habits.” Another added, “Easy to chat with your baby. Easy to create a climate of consent at home.”
Ultimately, asking a baby’s permission may come down to parenting style. Some families may choose it as a tool to foster respect and connection, while others focus on observation, engagement, and responsiveness without the verbal framing. The key takeaway? Being mindful and communicative with infants builds trust, regardless of method.
What do you think—should parents ask babies for consent during diaper changes, or is it over the top? Share your thoughts and spread the conversation!