A newly engaged couple found themselves at a crossroads when a surprising request sparked doubts and debate—both in their relationship and online.
The 30-year-old man, a tech researcher, had been dating his 26-year-old marketing professional girlfriend for over two years. They met at work and quickly grew close, bonding over shared interests and complementary strengths. Her organizational skills and calm demeanor helped him manage his ADD, and their connection deepened with time.
After moving in together, they had their first serious financial discussion and were both surprised to discover the dramatic gap in their earnings—he made nearly fifteen times her salary. Wanting to support her, he offered to handle most shared expenses so she could focus on paying off her student debt. Things went smoothly—until the proposal.
Though his now-fiancée had never shown a taste for extravagance, she insisted on a diamond engagement ring worth around $15,000, calling it a lifelong symbol of their love. He hesitated but eventually agreed, though her repeated mentions of the ring’s cost made him uneasy.
Not long after the proposal, she brought up an unexpected plan: she wanted to quit her job and focus on planning the wedding. At first, he thought she was joking, but quickly realized she was serious. She argued that her salary was modest compared to his and that as a couple, they should act as a team.
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