I thought meeting my fiancé Richard’s parents would be an exciting step forward, but one dinner revealed just how little I knew about him. By the end of that night, I realized I had to cancel the wedding.
Never did I think I would call off my wedding, but life can surprise you.
Normally, I consult friends and family before making big decisions, but this time, I just knew I had to prioritize myself.
Richard and I met at work when he joined as a junior accounting executive. He was charming, confident, and funny—instantly everyone’s favorite. Within seven weeks, we were dating, and soon after, he proposed. Caught up in the romance, I said yes without hesitation.
But there was one thing nagging at me: I hadn’t met his parents. They lived out of state, and Richard always had a reason for us not to visit. When they learned of our engagement, they insisted on meeting me, and Richard assured me, “They’re going to love you.”
In the days leading up to dinner, I obsessively chose my outfit, worried about their approval and if they might discourage Richard from marrying me.
On Friday, I settled on a classic black dress and opted for a natural look. Richard picked me up, all smiles. “You look gorgeous,” he said, taking my hand. His reassurance was comforting, but nothing prepared me for what was to come.
The restaurant was stunning, with crystal chandeliers and soft piano music. Richard’s parents were waiting at a table by the window. His mother, Isabella, greeted him with a tight hug, fussing over him. “You look so thin, Richard. Are you eating enough?” she cooed, completely ignoring me.
Finally, Richard introduced me. His mother gave me a polite smile, while his father barely acknowledged me.
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