I never expected to find myself questioning my own mother’s choices, yet here I am, holding a receipt for an $1,800 designer dress. To me, it’s more than just a piece of clothing—it’s a symbol of a decision she made, one that could have helped her grandson with his college costs instead.
My mother is 70 years old and has always been incredibly sensible. She raised five children on a limited budget, putting family first at every turn. She pulled extra shifts so we could attend our school trips, wore the same coat for years so we could have new ones, and made sure we never went without. Growing up, I can’t recall a single time she splurged on herself.
That’s why I was taken aback when I discovered she had spent nearly two thousand dollars on a designer dress—just to wear to her book club and an occasional luncheon.
I’d been hoping, even assuming, that she might contribute to my son’s upcoming college expenses. Every little bit counts when you’re staring down tuition, books, and housing fees. I never expected her to cover it all, but some help would have really made a difference. Instead, all I could think about was that $1,800 dress in her closet—seldom worn—while my son racks up more student loans.
Eventually, I brought it up, trying to keep my tone calm. “Mom,” I said over coffee, “the dress is beautiful, but… I can’t help thinking that money could have gone toward Jason’s education.”
She took a gentle sip of her tea and set the cup down. “I know,” she replied quietly. “I considered that.”
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