They built a big, energetic family together—Track, Bristol, Willow, Piper, and Trig—and a home rooted deeply in Alaska’s wild rhythms. Palin worked as a sports reporter, helped run the family’s commercial fishing business, and eventually charged into politics, becoming Alaska’s youngest and first female governor in 2006.
Todd, known to America as the “First Dude,” balanced oil-field shifts with raising their kids and racing in the legendary Iron Dog snowmobile competition. When McCain chose Palin as his running mate in 2008, Todd shouldered even more at home as the family faced nationwide scrutiny—including Bristol’s highly publicized teen pregnancy—under a spotlight that rarely softened.
On the outside, the Palins seemed rock solid. Behind the scenes, the story was far more complicated. In 2019, just after their 31st anniversary, Palin received an email from a lawyer informing her that Todd had filed for divorce—a moment she described as feeling like being “shot.” He cited incompatibility; she longed for counseling and a chance to rebuild. Their divorce became official in March 2020.
The aftermath was painful. Palin has said the shock still lingers. She and Todd now keep contact to the basics, coordinating mainly for their youngest son, Trig. Todd has moved on with a new partner in the Lower 48.
And Palin—who has weathered more public storms than most—found an unexpected source of steadiness in a longtime friend: former NHL star Ron Duguay. What began as a simple favor—giving her a tour of New York—grew into a relationship she describes as “safe and comfortable.” Duguay has stood by her personally and politically, even supporting her recent run for Alaska’s at-large congressional seat.
Rebuilding your life is never simple. Doing it in public, with five children and seven grandchildren watching, takes extraordinary resolve. Yet Palin has kept moving in the only direction she knows—forward. From a courthouse elopement with borrowed witnesses to a vice-presidential campaign and now a new chapter back in Wasilla, she remains a woman who has lived loudly, stumbled publicly, and continued fighting with the same iron-spined spirit that put her on the map.
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