Television audiences came to know him through appearances on Northern Exposure before he landed what would become his defining role on The Sopranos. Originally cast for a small part, Adler’s character Hesh quickly became a recurring figure, serving as Tony Soprano’s close family adviser and trusted friend.
Beyond The Sopranos
Adler’s career continued to flourish after his time on the groundbreaking HBO series. He appeared on The Good Wife as Howard Lyman, and made memorable guest appearances on Rescue Me, Transparent, The West Wing, and Broad City. His film work included Woody Allen’s Manhattan Murder Mystery and other projects that showcased his range as a performer.
Despite his success on screen, Adler never strayed far from the stage. He returned to Broadway in Elaine May’s Taller Than a Dwarf in 2000 and later appeared in Larry David’s Fish in the Dark in 2015. “I do it because I really enjoy it,” he once said of performing. “I think retirement is a road to nowhere.”
A Life Well Lived
In addition to acting, Adler authored a memoir, Too Funny for Words: Backstage Tales from Broadway, Television and the Movies, sharing his experiences from behind the curtain and in front of the camera.
Adler passed peacefully in his sleep at his New York City home on August 23, 2025, according to his representative. He is survived by his wife of 31 years, Joan Laxman, and his four daughters — Alisa, Amy, Laura, and Emily.
Although he began his acting career later in life, Jerry Adler’s story serves as an inspiring reminder that it is never too late to pursue your passions. His talent, wit, and dedication will be remembered by fans, colleagues, and generations of performers to come.
May he rest in peace.