The couple also pre-ordered bridesmaid dresses and instructed the bridesmaids to maintain their weight. This rule caused tension, especially with the bride’s mother, who told her the wedding was “doomed from the start.” Some bridesmaids even threatened to drop out, and the couple began receiving last-minute cancellations from guests.
Adding to the drama, the bride asked her maid of honor to leave her daughter, the flower girl, at a hotel with a babysitter during the ceremony. The maid of honor refused and planned to leave her daughter with her mother instead. As a result, the bride lost her flower girl.
Despite the bride’s attempts to justify her rules, the majority of Reddit users found her and her fiancé’s demands unreasonable, labeling them as the “assholes” in the situation.
Commenters pointed out that while a couple has the right to plan their wedding as they wish, guests are not obligated to follow unreasonable demands and can decline the invitation.
In the end, most Reddit users agreed that the couple’s strict rules were out of line and were pushing their loved ones away.
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