So to wake up and find that?
It stung.
I didn’t file a report. There was no damage. No confrontation. Just a quiet message that, for some reason, my presence—or what I displayed—wasn’t welcome.
I tried to let it go.
But three days later, after replacing the flag, it happened again.
This time, a $10 bill and another note:
“Again, nothing personal. Just can’t have that flying here.”
No punctuation. No name. Just another quiet removal.
That night, I didn’t sleep much. Not out of fear—but because I realized someone had drawn a conclusion about me without ever speaking to me. And that hurt more than anything.
The next morning, I went to the local bakery. Sheila, who runs the place, greeted me with a warm smile.
“You’re Nate, right?” she asked.
I nodded.
“Heard you’re missing some flags.”
I blinked. “You heard?”
“It’s a small town. People talk.”
“Any idea why?”
She paused. “Honestly? I think it’s less about the flag, and more about someone not knowing how to handle someone different.”
That afternoon, I did something unexpected. I baked cookies (thank you, online tutorials) and went door to door. Just to say hello. I told folks a little about myself—how I used to teach shop class, served in the Marines in the ’80s, and still enjoy old westerns on Friday nights.
Most people were friendly. A few were surprised. But at the last house on the street, something unexpected happened.
A boy, maybe 12, ran up to me.
“You the flag guy?” he asked.
I chuckled. “Guess so.”
He looked uneasy. “I think my brother took it. He didn’t mean to be mean. He just gets… weird about stuff like that. Says flags mean things.”
I crouched down. “They do mean things. To all of us. Sometimes different things. That’s okay.”
He nodded. “He thought you were trying to change people.”
I smiled. “I’m just here to fix up an old house and enjoy my coffee.”
He hesitated, then pulled something from his backpack—my flag, folded neatly.
“I saved it. Didn’t want it thrown out.”
Something shifted in me right then. Not sadness. Something like hope.
“Thank you,” I said. “You’ve got a good heart.”
“You gonna put it back up?” he asked.
I thought for a second. Then said, “Nope.”
He looked surprised.
“I’m gonna frame it. Put it in my front window. That way, if someone wants to talk about it, they can come knock.”
The truth is, sometimes people don’t understand you—and it’s easier for them to make assumptions than to have a conversation. But you don’t have to respond with anger. Or resentment.
Kindness doesn’t mean weakness. And staying true to who you are? That’s strength.
You don’t have to be loud to be heard.
Sometimes, all it takes is opening your door—and letting people see the real you.
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